You are still young to learn. But people in America live easy life.
But You are contradicting Yourself on some points. You want more freedom and less bureaucracy, but You want to move to Romania and even work in Iran. Seriously? Don't know nothing about Chile, but it can't be perfect country as they... don't exist. Have You ever visited any other country?
You want Your children to be virgins until they basically reach Your age now, but You want to move to Eastern Europe.
No offence to You, but here we grow up fast, we are pretending that we are adults by the age of 16. Only chastity belts would work. And not to mention wide variety of STD's that are rampant too. Thanks to stigma and shame that comes with them.
But it's Your life and Your choice.
For example I found Russians that grew up in America very soft compared to ones that grew up in Russia. Plus they can't swear at all.
They don't fare good when they get back to their countries.
My humble suggestion for You is to create perfected country in Your environment. Surround Yourself with things that You like, sure America is not perfect, but You have something that loads of countries could even thing of.
Even in a country where I feel like fly in a soup I can make my home a place where I feel good.
And I recommend You to visit those countries You've mentioned. Sometimes traveling can open Your eyes. My best friend is leaving for Mexico and he never imagined himself living in other country. He found his paradise there, but he had to visit this country couple times to make sure.
I've been to Europe once and Canada a dozen or so times, and to just about every state in the USA.
Americans don't travel internationally as much as Europeans because of the costs associated in time and money. A German or the Frenchman may have 6 weeks of paid vacation per year, he can hop on a train and spend a week in Spain, a weekend in Portugal, then a week in Italy, a week in Denmark, or he could go on a road-trip and spend a few days in just about every country in Western/Central Europe within 3-4 weeks.
Americans get at most 3-4 weeks of paid vacation and that's usually only after 5+ years at the same company. Not to mention that most companies seriously frown on you using more than one week of vacation at a time.
America is basically the size of Europe, we have 50 states that could easily be 50 countries, so when an American goes on a summer road-trip during a college break and spends time in 8-9 states, that is basically the equivalent of what a European might do, except the American never leaves his own nation, the culture is largely the same in each location he goes to, the language is the same in each location, but there is a widely varying geography, history, and there are other local considerations.
Also, my great aunt from Italy married at 13 [to a boy who was 14 or 15] and had at least a dozen children. In America it is essentially unheard of for people to marry at 16 or 17, parents say, "no way! I will never allow that!" but then when it comes to promiscuity they say, "well what can we do, we cannot stop that."
America doesn't allow children to be children but it also doesn't prepare them for adulthood.
I recently read a comment on MSNBC news site from a poster/reader who declared that a 22 year old man tried to ask his 17 year old daughter out on a date and. He wrote, "she is still a child, he is still an adult, that's the law, and in my book he's a pedophile child rapist and should be treated like one."
That man doesn't even know what the definition of a pedophile is. A 22 year old male who is attracted to a 17 year old female can NOT be a pedophile because she is a young woman, a sexually mature and physically mature [maybe not emotionally mature] young woman.
So we have a system in the USA where parents treat their children like children, the law treats a child like a child, they cannot work on construction sites, they cannot work in factories, they cannot vote, they cannot enter into contracts, they cannot purchase weaponry, they cannot do much of anything... When they're 17 years and 364 days old they are a child, with no more rights than a toddler, except they might be allowed to drive if they have a license... The very next day, at exactly 18 years old, they have a massive amount of rights dumped on them.
Historically in the 1800s and early 1900s, a father might have to leave his 12-14 year old alone for several weeks while he delivered a herd of cattle to Abilene. The boy would watch the farm/ranch and keep a handle on things. Today if you leave a 12 year old alone for a weekend expect the police to be called, expect child protective services to take your family away, and perhaps your son might even invite the neighbors to call police by throwing a loud noisy party and trashing your house.
In the old days a child might go to work with his father and would have several years of skills, knowledge, and experience.
In America we don't allow parents to guide their children into adulthood, we use laws that declare children are children until the day they turn 18, but even then they cannot rent a car [no car rental agency will rent to those below 25 without special provisions], they cannot buy a handgun [age limit 21], and they cannot drink or purchase alcohol [age 21], but the law declares they are now an adult, but they don't know how to be an adult, nobody has prepared them for adulthood, nobody has taught them.
What I'm getting at, I wouldn't be horrified if I had a daughter and she lost her virginity at 16 because she was married at 16 to a similarly mature guy who was 16-20 years old, as long as I believed the man to be intelligent and determined to provide for her and the family they were going to make.
Most Americans would be horrified at the idea of their 16 year old daughter getting married because "it will interfere with her college and her career!" [as though we live to work and the sole purpose in life is to have a career, punch a clock, work 9 to 5, and then die] but they wouldn't be too upset if she had sex as long as she took precautions to avoid pregnancy, and if she became pregnant they'd want her to put it up for adoption or get an abortion, even though it would be their grandchild!
Women seem to believe that a man cares what her career is. I've noticed a lot of women with horrible personalities brag about their careers. I could care less if the woman is a waitress at a coffee shop, a farmer, or the CEO of a major law firm, it doesn't matter. A man doesn't place the sort of value on the status of his woman's career that a woman places on her man's career.
The American model is that a woman is expected to wait until age 30-35 to marry and begin having children, because she should spend age 18-22 in college earning a 4 year degree, and maybe even spend another 3 years earning a masters degree. After that she should get into a career and spend the next 5-10 years getting settled in the career before she meets a man and possibly marries him.
I could show you a graph based on a long-term study, a woman's ability to meaningfully bond with her husband drops like a rock if she's had more than two sex partners before going with her husband. Most American women will have more than 2 sex partners by age 20, to say nothing of 30-35. I've known some women who had racked up several dozen sex partners by age 30, some who racked up 5-6 by age 20. They're not going to have happy and stable family lives and in the end their career won't count for shit because their career isn't going to live on as a legacy, their career isn't going to hug them, draw a birthday card for them, make them soup when they're sick, their career won't give them grandchildren, their career won't do anything like that for them.
In America women have spoken, they want careers and money, materialism. Dogs and cats replace husbands and children. Most American women are spiritually empty and they try to fill this void with alcohol, drugs, random sex, expensive vacations, dresses, etc... Somewhere around half of all American women are on psychotropic medication at any given time, mostly anti-depressants. No matter how much money they make, how many toys they buy, it is never enough, they are still depressed because they have a sickness in the soul.
I know I cannot and will not marry an American woman. I have considered the possibility of working overseas for X years and along the way meeting and marrying a foreign woman [Romania would probably be on high on my list for this route, but I'd need to learn more about Romanian culture, values, attitudes, and of course their language], but I don't want to live in or near a city in the USA, I'd prefer to live in rural South Dakota, North Dakota, or Montana, with 50-100 acres of land, raising my own livestock and growing my own food.
America has a TOXIC impact on foreigners, especially women. American women are generally bitter and jealous bitches who will poison the minds of foreign women if they get the chance.
Just look at the "International Marriage Broker Regulation Act" passed during the George W Bush years at the insistence of American feminists because several foreign women were killed by their American husbands. This law mandates that any American man wanting to use a dating agency to contact a woman must definitively establish he is not a criminal before his information can be shared by the agency with the woman or before her information can be shared with him. They automatically assume he is guilty and he has to prove he is not a criminal, at his cost.
It is the same reason why American automobile companies demand sanctions and tariffs against foreign car companies. They make crap that Americans don't want to buy, Americans see that they have better options if they buy an import, the domestic models cannot compete with the foreign models, so the companies in the USA use political capital to get import restrictions placed on foreign cars.
American women don't have what American men want, they are fat, ugly, bitter, nasty, petty, vindicative, they are often covered in tattoos [about 40% of people in the USA have tattoos, with about 42% of women having them], they are very unloyal, very prone to divorce [about 80% of divorces in the USA are initiated by women], and they just don't have what men are looking for, so men look elsewhere.
But American women do not want anything to challenge their monopoly, they want American men to have to bow before them and play their game if they want sex/wife/family/kids, so they cry, "foreign women are being abused by horrible American men, we need to protect those foreign women and make it harder for American men to contact them!" and they get legislation that cuts back on the competition from foreign nations.
If the globalists actually applied their free trade globalist rhetoric to dating, then American women would be sunk.
I've read plenty written by American men who only date foreign women and I've spoken with American men who only date foreign women... I've come to realize that most American men have no idea what they're missing, they are dangerously coasting through life on auto-pilot, they don't realize that in the USA because of family law the women hold all the cards and can destroy them on a whim, and they will continue to involve themselves with American women, much to their detriment.
In the USA if you marry an American woman, she can absolutely and totally destroy you using the legal system. She can divorce you, take most of your assets, take your children away from you, and take most of your salary/wages for the next 20+ years. She will face no social condemnation, her church will not call her to task for her behavior, her family will support her, and even your family will probably turn against you as your parents try to keep friendly relations with her in hope of still being able to see their grandkids. The only thing that you have to prevent her from using her legal, social, and cultural power to destroy you on a whim, is her character, her good intentions. I refuse to trust my life and my livelihood to the character of a woman and to her supposedly good intentions.
I cannot do it, it cannot and will not happen.
I believe I can safely declare that I will never marry a woman in the United States, Canada, Britain, Australia, or New Zealand [we might as well add the English community in South Africa as well] or anybody born in the Anglo-world. It might be different if the woman was raised in Translyvania and just moved to America with her sister a month ago to go to college.
If the woman was born in America I'm just not interested in her. I'm 6'0 feet tall, about 174 pounds, I try to take care of myself, I'm fairly intelligent, I have no criminal record, I have a number of hobbies, I'm fine with doing work that is mentally taxing or physically taxing [I've done manual labor before], I don't pollute my body with drugs or alcohol, I believe I deserve better than the typical American bloated cow who thinks she is a princess.
A lot of girls play dress up as a princess and their parents tell them they're a princess.
I remember as a young boy my mother used to drive me through poor neighborhoods and encourage me to laugh at poor people while proclaiming that their houses were stains on the community and should be torn down. She also used to encourage me to view others as stupid and weak. She would often say, "that house is a miserable eye sore, they should tear it down" and if I would ask, "but mom, where would they live then?" she'd say, "who cares, that house is ugly."
One day around age 11-12 I ran my mouth at some random lady in front of my dad, when she said I reminded her of her son, I declared that I was probably smarter. My dad chewed me out quite a bit over that. He made it clear, "you probably are right, you're one of the smartest guys I've ever encountered, but don't let those IQ tests and those honors go to your head, I'm not going to stand by and have you putting down other people. That's something your mother would do. So don't you ever talk like that."
He also told me, "don't you ever laugh at somebody because they have less than we do, I work hard for what we have but if things were different we might be on the street or living in a car, maybe your mother thinks it is funny to laugh at people who have less, but it isn't and I won't have you doing that."
After age 12 I was raised exclusively by my father. I'm glad because my mother has no humility and she might have corrupted me. My mother has repeatedly articulated a belief that she will one day become a royal in Europe, at least a Countess or a Duchess, because some European royal or noble will marry her. One day around age 16-17 when I was visiting with her she went off on some rant about how she was going to marry a British prince, why a prince should marry her, how great it would be to live in a palace. I shot her little delusion down in a matter of seconds by saying, "you're 100 pounds overweight, your personality is miserable, and you cheated on my dad with about 8 other guys while married to him, what do you have to offer a British noble, let alone a royal, that would make him want to marry you?"
I'm still fairly cocky but I believe my view of myself and the world around me is grounded solidly in reality. My mother considers herself a future princess.
I consider it a matter of divine intervention that my father was able to have full/sole custody of me as a child after he and my mother divorced. First they had shared custody and then my mother sued for full custody, claiming a whole laundry list of nonsense. The judge met with me, asked me some questions [around age 11-12] and I made it clear that I would not accept living with my mother.
Ultimately my mother went through three different attorneys because the first two were not willing to get on-board with her schemes to lie.
The third attorney she had kept trying to get me to say my father had molested me, my father had done this, that, everything horrible you could imagine, to me. He would say, "now young man, you need to tell the judge about how your father did this to you" and I just looked at him and said, "that never happened and you're a rotten liar, I'm going to tell the judge you told me to lie under oath." That freaked him out and he avoided me like the plague after that.
My mother's second attorney, a woman, quit because my mother was a monster. She eventually ran into the woman who had served as my dad's attorney and my mom's former attorney told my dad's former attorney, "I hope your client and his son are doing well, I hated having to work for that woman... In all of my life I have never had a more vulgar, obscene, disgusting, and vile client, I have never had a client I hated worse than that woman."
That was probably an exceptionally rare case. Almost anytime in the USA when a woman files for full custody, she will receive it, no matter the details or circumstances, unless she shows up to court naked and smoking crack [even then it is a matter for debate].
I just do not want to expose any children I have to that culture, that system, that society. I'd just like to live quietly, raise chickens, plant crops, and spend my time advancing my martial arts training and designing small arms.
In today's America, Samuel Colt would have been arrested for manufacturing firearms without a license. Smith and Wesson would be in prison as well, to say nothing of John Browning! If you have the thousands of dollars necessary for the gunsmith/manufacturer permits and the tens of thousands of dollars necessary for the permits to operate light industry, liability insurance, etc, then you're rich enough that you don't need to start a gun company, you don't need to design anything.
In America it has gotten to the point where if you want/need to start a small business to have a livelihood, you have to be rich to begin with. If you want to make a living with a small business, you'll have to have so much money to begin with that you're already rich enough not to have to worry about needing a small business to make a living.